Welcome first time guest poster Alyx G with this glorious exploration into Facetime being sexy time
Being in a long-distance relationship makes it hard to feel connected to each other physically, especially when that distance is a 21-hour flight away on the other side of the world and the man I want to ruin me is stuck 8 and a half hours ahead. It does not help that he seems to find sadistic pleasure in teasing the ever-loving shit out of me, but then again, I guess I do the same.
It comes from nowhere, always a surprise. It's 2pm for me so I should’ve been expecting late night frisky business from him but when that message came through, I still had to take a breather.
“You’re going to sit and take this filth like a good girl, aren’t you? Let me tell you how I’m going to fuck you till you drip from all your holes”.
FUCK. It’s even worse when they know just what to say to get you going.
In the time it took me to read that, my clit was throbbing and I could feel my entrance contracting, begging to be filled. After nearly an hour of hearing how he planned to leave me tied to his bed and dripping, vibrator strapped to my leg and left to beg for the overwhelming orgasms to stop, I could feel how wet I’d become from his words and was stumbling to my room when the facetime call came through. I was shutting the door behind me when I answered the phone to see him already naked, slowly stroking his hard cock in full view of the camera. I have never taken clothes off so quickly, shorts and boxers were thrown on the ground and my vibrator was out my drawer before he’d even said “hey baby”.
I always say I don’t have sex for clitoral orgasms, I mean they’re a great bonus but I can do them myself. Something about penetrative sex just HITS the spot (pun intended) and just being filled mixed with a breeding kink is my bread and butter.However, I can’t be filled or bred over the phone, so this is where being in an open relationship comes in handy.
I love my partner, and I love that we can have some form of sexual contact 1500Km apart but I could not spend the next 9 months without dick, that would end badly for all who know me.
So it works out well for our dynamic; we have fun with each other online to maintain that sexual tension between us but also get physical relief from a third party as well. And you know what, something about those horny facetime calls just make me feel so empowered. It is glorious knowing that we can get each other off from our words. Both my partner and I have agreed as well that the facetime sex we have is better than the sex we are actually having with other people, isn’t it weird how that emotional connection can impact our pleasure so much?
Because I have submissive tendencies, one of our favourite ‘couple activities’ over the phone is jerk off instructions (JOI). I ADORE being told what to do and how to touch myself the way he would if he were here and hearing him moan in my ears as he is telling me, gets me so incredibly desperate for his dick inside me. I especially love toying with permission play, often times he will tell me I can’t cum until he does so I’m whining over the phone as he is going as slowly as possible to make me suffer and hold it. Or even better, he will let me cum but then tell me I can’t stop and it’s orgasm after orgasm riding the blissful line of over-stimulation, the grey area between pain and pleasure.
I think this is the one time I will actually get on my knees and thank the lord for Steve Jobs and his ingenious idea of Facetime. Being able to sit as a couple, watch him get off to me getting off to his words, is a gift. It takes a while to figure it all out, you need somewhere for your phone to rest so you have full use of your hands and you also have to get used to using your words a lot more.
I am a physical person and generally if I want to get my partner off I will be down on my knees burying their dick into the back of my throat until they pull me off to fuck me or until I feel their cum down my throat. So I have been thrown headfirst into figuring out how to use my mouth in a very different way.
Sometimes I feel like the only person in the world who just can’t seem to get the hang of dirty talk. All my partners have always been able to sit there a describe how they’d face fuck me till there’s tears in my eyes or eat me out till I’m begging them to stop, in EXTREME detail. It was like listening to personalized smut and, fuck, does it get me horny. I want to be able to do the same for them but I find every time I try, I think whatever comes out is cringey or just not hot. Any tips or advice, please pass them on. Growl them in my ear if you like.
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